Part I – What Kinds of Peer Pressure do Students Face at School?
Students are a part of all kinds of peer pressure at school. This article discusses the peer pressures they face and how they affect the students.
The years you spend at the school play a vital role in shaping the person you become in the future. The primary objective of the school may be to impart education, but it also serves as a fertile ground for developing peer groups. Such peer groups have a massive influence on the personality of the student. They are the driving force behind the performance of the students in academics, the activities they choose to be a part of, the way they view authority, how they spend their time, and their perspective towards life in general. Naturally, the feeling of not being able to fit into a group can be overwhelming for any teenager during those formative years. In most cases, they are ready to do almost anything to fit in.
Peer Pressure is a Part of Life
Each of us has been molded by peer pressure consciously or unconsciously. The key is to teach kids not to lose themselves to please others. Peer groups are an integral part of growing up, and comprehensive programs like SEL Adventures allow students to understand the difference between positive and negative peer relationships. It helps them clearly see the difference between the relationships that are pulling them down and those that are pushing them forward. Schools and teachers should take the responsibility to make sure that students earn that discretion.
Negative Peer Pressure
There are several types of negative peer pressures that middle-schoolers have to endure. Peers can make students do things by way of insulting, threatening to reject, or with non-verbal pressure from others to do something that everyone else in the peer group is doing.
All these different pressures from their peers can confuse the young students and lead them to make poor decisions. This can have a jarring impact on the self-esteem and self-image of the child. In turn, this becomes the reason for their frustration and even anxiety.
Constant negative peer pressure can also stunt the growth of a child. They have a hard time identifying the cause and solving the problems they face. This inevitably leads to teenagers developing a poor image of themselves. This poor image is the root cause of high-risk behaviors in most kids, including substance abuse, trying life-threatening stunts, and so son.
Positive Peer Pressure
Peer pressure has earned itself a bad reputation, but it can also lead to many positive situations.
Peer educators have become a significant part of school outreach programs. In fact, the Red Cross uses peer educators for their programs on safe sex. The organization has found that students are more likely to listen to a positive message when it comes from one of their peers.
Positive peer relationships are powerful. Students can see their peers working hard towards their goals and be inspired to work hard themselves. They can see their classmates involving themselves in different activities and becoming physically fit, and they would want to do the same.